But when I calmed down, I felt that Wen Li couldnāt have done such a childish thing, and Xu Changāan... wasnāt the type to say such words.
So, perhaps Wen Liās decision to give up being a sword cultivator really has nothing to do with Xu Changāan.
After all, Xu Changāan has barely set one foot into the realm of sword cultivation.
"It seems Iāve wronged you."
"...Wronged?"
Xu Changāan was even more confused.
Zhu Pingniang gently shook her head and did not explain.
She thought, if it had nothing to do with Xu Changāan, then it really was a difficult problem to solve.
Forget it, sheāll talk to Wen Li first, if she really canāt persuade her, then find another way... let Changāan in and see.
What Xu Changāan says should still have an effect on Wen Li, right?
But what really made Zhu Pingniang feel tricky was that perhaps even Xu Changāan couldnāt help.
Wen Liās attitude towards Xu Changāan was still ambiguous, and the young girl herself wasnāt clear about her feelings for Xu Changāan. At this time, asking Xu Changāan to persuade... might even backfire.
"Really... how did she end up with a muddled Dao heart?"
Zhu Pingniang furrowed her brow.
Could it be that Wen Li is similar to Qingluo?
Is it because Xu Changāan is too focused and not at all flirtatious, so Wen Li sees no hope and has given up?
"Ahem." Zhu Pingniang cleared her throat, then leaned against the window corridor and stretched: "Changāan, elder sister has something sheād like your opinion on."
"Please go ahead." Xu Changāan nodded.
"A cultivated courtesan under my care, after redeeming herself, by chance fell for a suitable man. I can see that they have feelings for each other, but... that man already has a wife, and the girl can only marry as a concubine." Zhu Pingniang said slowly.
Xu Changāan nodded upon hearing this.
This is quite common and nothing surprising.
Zhu Pingniang said with some emotion, "The girl herself is in love with the man and doesnāt mind marrying as a concubine, but... lately, sheās been hesitant, because if that man really marries her as a concubine, it would be disloyal, even an insult, to his wife who is from a well-regarded family, virtuous and upright. Logically, even if she takes a concubine... a cultivated courtesan wouldnāt have a place in such a home."
If she really marries in, the man may only end up with a frivolous reputation, while his wife would greatly lose face.
Xu Changāan quietly listened, nodded to show understanding, and asked puzzledly, "So... he doesnāt want to take a concubine then?"
"Still wants to." Zhu Pingniang shook her head: "After all, the coupleās feelings are genuine, and heās determined to make the girl a concubine."
"Then whereās the problem?" Xu Changāan didnāt understand.
"But the girl doesnāt want to marry. Now sheās torn, thinking... if this man can disregard his wifeās face for her, does it mean... heās inherently unfeeling and unworthy of trust." Zhu Pingniang spread her hands: "Quite laughable, right? Clearly, he likes her, yet sheās the one hesitating."
"I donāt find it laughable at all." Xu Changāan said seriously: "His wife is like that, let alone a concubine."
"Oh?" Zhu Pingniang looked at Xu Changāan in surprise: "You think not marrying is better?"
"Yes." Xu Changāan nodded.
"Thatās odd." Zhu Pingniang looked at Xu Changāan, astonished: "I thought you would remain neutral and say you donāt know enough to offer advice..."
But Xu Changāan was this decisive.
"Ms. Zhu." Xu Changāan seemed a bit helpless: "Iām usually somewhat indecisive, but not so much that Iām this backward, right?"
"Canāt say for sure." Zhu Pingniang snorted coldly: "So, why do you say she shouldnāt marry? I see that man treasures her very much."
"Thereās a saying: Marry a virtuous wife, take a beautiful concubine." Xu Changāan shook his head, saying softly: "If a virtuous wife can be undermined, what of a concubine who is not the true beloved?"
Zhu Pingniang looked discontentedly at Xu Changāan: "You havenāt even met that man, how do you know heās not a good person?"
Xu Changāan just smiled: "Ms. Zhu, since the girl is already hesitating."
Calling it hesitation, but really... the answer is already decided.
Xu Changāan didnāt make the decision for the girl arbitrarily; he simply saw that this matter was already settled.
Once the cultivated courtesan feels hesitation in her heart, she absolutely would not marry in as a concubine, and Zhu Pingniang also would never agree.
For the girls at the Flower Moon Building, if they truly wished to marry, theyād be resolute, how could they hesitate?
"Youāre quite shrewd." Zhu Pingniang sighed: "But I still find it laughable, clearly... A man who truly isnāt put off and sincerely likes her, but because of wanting to marry her, it canāt happen, how could something like this exist... Say, by this reasoning, wonāt all the girls I have end up single?"
"If the main wife is not of a noble family, taking one of these girls as a concubine wouldnāt count as an insult." Xu Changāan said.
"All right then." Zhu Pingniang gave Xu Changāan a deep look.
She sensed it.
Xu Changāan might not realize it himself yet, but he had a significant aversion to the idea of men taking concubines while having a wife. When he heard that the man had a virtuous wife from a noble family, a hint of disdain flickered in his eyes.
She had once asked Xu Changāan if he was willing to take a concubine, and at that time Xu Changāan said no, but Zhu Pingniang hadnāt taken it to heart.
Now she truly had some understanding of his attitude.
His disdain, contempt, and even loathing for the concept of men taking concubines were apparent.
Especially when Xu Changāan spoke the phrase "marry a virtuous wife, take a beautiful concubine," it was clear he held the phrase in disdain.
He didnāt find the cultivated courtesanās regret laughable, but he found that phrase laughable.
Itās worth noting that Xu Changāan was usually gentle and serene, rarely showing such contempt, yet at this moment...
It was clear that Xu Changāan was extremely repulsed by the practice of men taking concubines.
How could such men exist in this world?
Zhu Pingniang found it somewhat incomprehensible.
Throughout history, it was normal for capable men to have multiple wives and concubines, whereas being devoted to only one wife was deemed abnormal in contrast.
Yet if he held such an attitude towards taking concubines out of mutual affection, Zhu Pingniang felt Xu Changāan would openly ridicule it if it were devoid of feelings.
"You... are quite unusual." Zhu Pingniang stared at Xu Changāan.
"...?" Xu Changāan didnāt really understand what was going on with Zhu Pingniang.
He wasnāt very aware of his own tone, but he truly had no fondness for the idea of men taking concubines. The human heart is limited; just holding one person dear is quite challenging, so how could one spare affection?
Xu Changāan would truly laugh out loud if someone claimed to love everyone.
"Changāan, do you find... taking concubines a ridiculous matter?" Zhu Pingniang suddenly spoke up.
She was already starting to feel uneasy.
If Xu Changāan held such a view, then... what would happen with her Qingluo...
"Ridiculous." This time, Xu Changāan didnāt maintain neutrality, but seriously expressed his stance: "Quite ridiculous, I... cannot understand it."
If true feelings are at issue, just part ways and not seek excuses for selfish desires? He disdained such actions.
He didnāt know why Zhu Pingniang was asking, but concerning his attitude toward Miss Yun, Xu Changāan refused to conform to the times.
"I donāt find anything laughable about taking concubines." Zhu Pingniang shook her head: "If the ancient saying states marry a virtuous wife, take a beautiful concubine, itās inherently acceptable, so the odd one isnāt them, itās you."
"Ms. Zhu." Xu Changāan shook his head, his voice slightly raised: "I believe the true essence of the saying āmarry a virtuous wife, take a beautiful concubineā is to advise against taking concubines."
"Hmm?" Zhu Pingniang was startled: "What do you mean? Why would it advise against taking concubines but still say it? Isnāt it to distinguish between wife and concubine, to maintain family stability?"
A virtuous wife stabilizes the family, a concubine... need only be beautiful.
To Zhu Pingniang, it seemed like this saying wasnāt advising against concubines, but reminding men... to have a virtuous wife when taking concubines, noting that concubines were merely for pleasure, not to be taken seriously.
Listening to Zhu Pingniang, Xu Changāan sighed, his tone calm. He recalled Yun Qian, who had just come over wanting a hug, and smiled:
"Cultivate focus to collect the heart, abstain from indulgence to cleanse the heart, eliminate desires to nurture the heart, observe ancient teachings to warn the heart, comprehend ultimate truths to illuminate the heart, and thus the best way is to be wholeheartedly good to oneās wife, which is the essence of this ancient saying."
Since one should marry a virtuous wife, that itself is the truest ābeauty.ā
"This is how Changāan sees it."
"...Yes."
Zhu Pingniang stared blankly at Xu Changāan for a while, her heart slightly racing.