1106: Chapter 1106: I Am Human (1) 1106: Chapter 1106: I Am Human (1) Just as she was thinking, a hawkâs cry came from the sky, and then Heihei swooped down.
Yang Ruxin hurriedly took a note from its claws: âNeed to delay a few more days, do not fret, missing you!â
Yang Ruxin then sent back a note telling it to be careful, and let Heihei go.
âCould there really be demons?â Yang Ruxin couldnât help but talk to herself while looking at the note, âNot willing to come back?â
âHahaâŠâ Suddenly, Sanniâs laughter came from beside her.
âWhy are you laughing so creepily?â Yang Ruxin gave the girl a disdainful glance.
âBig sister, so you can worry and overthink, too?â Sanni sighed somewhat helplessly, âI thought it was only us who did that?â
Erni, Sini, and the others also joined in the laughter.
âLittle girl, Iâm human, not a god,â Yang Ruxin said with an amused cry, âBeing human, one naturally has emotions and desires, is prone to wild thoughts, and besides, your brother-in-law has a face that attracts women like bees to honey.
How could I not worry?â
âActually, in our eyes, youâre like a god,â Sanni said, eyes full of admiration.
The rest nodded in agreement.
âSilly kids, if I were really a god, I would have ascended to the heavensâŠâ Yang Ruxin laughed wryly, âYouâre still young.
When you truly fall in love, youâll understandâŠâ
Several of them blushed.
âThereâs nothing to be embarrassed about.
As they say, opposites attract; so men and women are drawn to each other.
For instance, if someone finds anotherâs appearance or demeanor to be appealing, they may want to get closer to them, but thatâs just the start.
Deciding whether youâre suited for a lifelong partnership happens as you interact and date,â Yang Ruxin explained with a smile, calling the youngsters to gather around her, ââBoys grow to wed and girls grow to marryââyouâll all eventually take this step, including Xiaoyun and Du ManâŠâ
Their expressions softened.
âAlthough this era emphasizes parental orders and matchmakerâs words, prioritizing a womanâs âThree Obediences and Four Virtues,â just remember, all those old rules are useless with me.
As long as you conduct yourselves with dignity and sincerity, as long as I live and as long as I can help it, I wonât allow you to marry blindlyâŠ
This includes Du Man.
Even though you are in servitude now, if you do well, Iâll secure a good future for each of youâŠâ
They all nodded.
âIf you really like someone, you should get to know them.
Donât just listen to what they say, watch what they do.
For example, if two men both say they like you, and one day you fall ill, one might fret endlessly, scolding you for being careless and not taking care of yourself, then tell you to see a doctor and take medicine, while the other might not say much, but as soon as he hears youâre sick, he immediately fetches a doctor, buys medicine, and even prepares and brings it to your lipsâafterward, he puts a piece of preserved fruit in your mouthâŠâ
âThe second one is better,â Sanni immediately exclaimed.
âOr, for instance, one man says youâre beautiful and that you look best in a silk dress, but another insists you wear a padded jacket, because itâs still cold and he doesnât want you to catch a chillâŠâ
The girls began to ponder thoughtfully.
âSo, you see, love is also a kind of science.â Yang Ruxin picked up Little Yezi and placed her on her lap, âOnce you like someone, itâs natural to be anxious and suspicious, but you need to learn to regulate your emotions.
Thatâs called emotional self-control.
If you go too far, you might lose yourself completelyâŠâ